The word covenant refers to a solemn pact or agreement between persons who commit themselves to each other. In the case of lesbian and gay couples, they commit to honour, respect, support, and love each other.

Such covenants are intended to be exclusive and permanent, the basis of creating a new Family model that not only will have the stability necessary to rear children (if the couple wishes to do so) but also will sustain the partners to the end of their lives.

Christian rites of blessing for same-sex couples have been found as far back as the ninth century, predating the church's heterosexual marriage rites by three hundred years.

Debate continues in the lesbian and gay community about whether such ceremonies are "hetero-imitative," and therefore oppressive for same-sex couples, or one of the most radically liberating acts a same-sex couple can undertake.

Even agreement about the appropriate name for these ceremonies is lacking, as is demonstrated by the diverse terminology in the following rites.

Although covenantal rites should provide room for flexibility and adaptation, they should strive to reflect the couple's ethnic, cultural, and personal situation without compromising either partner's individuality. The bottom line is, of course, to do what feels joyful and appropriate for you and your partner.

TESTIMONIALS

	"It is my pleasure to write this letter of recommendation that Annie Godde Civil Celebrant did our gay commitment ceremony on 26 April 2003. From day one we meet Annie at her house, she was professional in her work and in organising the documents, helping us with our plans for our big day. After two to three meeting with Annie our day was set to be a hit. On our big day Annie was very well presented and well spoken, after our ceremony Annie mixed and talked with our Family and guests, which was great to see. Very well done Annie, thanks for all of your help." Paul & Mark.