Just a little story I would like to share with you all
in relation to the releasing of butterflies at weddings.
I was approached by a very excited bride and
groom not so long ago who wanted the very best of
everything to make their wedding the most memorable
occasion for not only themselves but all who attended.
As they rattled off their list of extravagance
they came to the part of symbolism and suggested the
release of a whole heap of butterflies.
Obviously the price was not a problem for the
couple but they did not have a clue when it came to the
massive precision and timing and luck one needs with
butterflies.
I said leave this one with me and I will do a little
research into this type of symbolism for a wedding.
Firstly it is probably
best to appoint somebody who can do a little research
and take on this task wholly and solely so that all
precautionary measures are adhered to ensure that your
basket of butterflies is given the best possible chance.
An
average order is 2 dozen per 50 guests. For an
individual butterfly release you can order one per guest
or couple, or select certain guests to participate, such
as the wedding party and family.
A beautiful idea is to have a whole heap in a big
basket and as you are pronounced husband and wife then
they are all released together.
Unbeknown to me butterflies are subject to cryotherapy
ie they must be refrigerated until a certain number of
hours before the release. Significantly, they need to
reach a temperature of 23 degrees before they can fly.
It's absolutely horrifying to see a butterfly sitting on
the end of some-one's finger trying madly to fly and it
just doesn't happen! Also, perhaps even more distressing
is the dead butterflies as you open the box because of
bad timing and overheating....Argh!!!!!
Many people also are unaware that butterflies need to be
released at least 2hours before sunset. They need this
time to find a nesting place or they die!
If you are lucky enough to get this far with these
fragile little critters then the following can be spoken
as the butterflies are released.
American Indian
Legend
According to an American Indian Legend –
Since a butterfly can make no sound, the butterfly can
not reveal
the wish to anyone but the Great Spirit who hears and
sees all.
In gratitude for giving the beautiful butterfly its
freedom,
the Great Spirit always grants the wish.
So, according to legend, by making a wish and giving the
butterfly its freedom, the wish will be taken to the
heavens and be granted.
If all goes to plan this can be very beautiful and
touching part of your ceremony but ensure that you do
your homework and find out as much information as
possible before going ahead as these little critters are
not cheap.
Might be best sticking with the rice or rose petals.
Whos game???
Regards
Annie.
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